viennalosers

A support group for friends and family to help us lose weight and get fit and feel good about ourselves so we can be better sisters, mothers, wives and better servants of the Lord.

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Holly was a stay at home, home-schooling mom of three boys. Alexander is a biological son born in 1994, and Max and Daniel were adopted from Russia in 2004, born in 1995 and 1996. Max has a sister born in 1994 who is still in an orphanage in Russia. We tried desperately to adopt her since 2002, but that is no longer possible. In 2007, we adopted 2 year old Rosie from China. Our blogs are meant to share our hopes, dreams, our family, our love and to record our journey toward perfecting our family. We hope the Lord will bless you as he has us.

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Tuesday

Well, it really hit me today - I gained 1.6 kg over the long Easter/Potluck/Dima's bday weekend. That is just shy of 4 pounds. I was saved from drowning in a sea of depression and cool whip by my dear friend Stephanie. We met at the church today and walked for nearly 2 hours! Whew, I was sweating when I got back in the car - but it really made me feel better. I am sure that those endorphins kick in with excercise because I always feel so much better.

I did well food wise today - no treats or sneaks. But I skipped lunch, but still managed to not overeat at dinner. Hope you all are doing okay?

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Temptations

Whew. It's almost over....
I survived the potluck - well, just barely. I had a fair portion of food, but lost it at dessert - there was just so much yummy stuff.

Today - Easter. I didn't get the kids too much candy this year - they each just got an Easter Bunny and thats it. So, I didn't have a bunch of stuff around, that was good. We ate leftovers and maybe I ate a little too much, but not too bad.

Tomorrow is Dima's bday and I'm making cake now - will the torment never stop????

Well, we start again - each day a new day.
I was so glad to go to SS and RS today, it really cheered me and helped with my perspective.
Hope you all are doing okay. I'm getting really excited about our temple trip. Yippee!

Friday, April 14, 2006

Its been a while....

Well, I haven't posted in ages. I have been doing okay with eating/exercising but just haven't had time to pop online. I had a small food break down on Tuesday night when we had the elders over. I made mexican (my favorite) and then I made my favorite yummy trifle for dessert. I just couldn't resist.

My big fear now is this Easter Weekend. We have the potluck on Saturday and then Sunday, Easter is always a day of food around here. I guess having afternoon church will help alleviate some of that.

Ronde' told me my new favorite quote, it is going to become my motto now:
"There are two kinds of pain; the pain of discipline and the pain of regret"
Wow. How profound is that?
If I'm going to be in pain anyway, I choose the positive pain - the pain of discipline. She read it on Meridian and I love it!

Keep logging on and post when you can - it helps so much to encourage each other -- and see you all on Saturday - Happy Easter.
Holly

Monday, April 10, 2006

Amount of Calories

From all my research, I find that no one recommends you go under 1200 calories per day. If you do, the weight loss won't be sustainable. You need to start eating now in a way that you can mantain the rest of your life. After you are at goal weight you can slowly add calories back to see where you get your best balance, usually around 1400 - 1800 per day.

One pound = 3500 calories. If you want to lose 2 pounds per week (recommended by most doctors) then you need to cut your calorie consumption by 1000 calories per day.

If I calculate my daily caloric requirement, I need 3654 calories per day to maintain my weight. If I want to lose 2 lbs per week, I need to go down to 2654 calories per day. Of course (and herein lies the problem to some extent). If I recalculate my daily caloric requirement in a month after I've loss 8 pounds, the result will be lower won't it. So, with this method, you must either start out with a lower amount of calories per day, or you must continually adjust it to a smaller amount as you get smaller.

To calculate daily required caloric need:

Body Weight x 11 = A
Body Weight x 1/3 ==Y
Y x the number of hours you don't sleep = B
A+B = Total required calories

For example for me:
220 x 11 = 2420
220 x 33 = 72.6, then 72.6 x 17 (if I get 7 hours sleep per night) = 1234.2

1234 + 2420 = 3654
This just really annoys me because there is NO WAY I eat 3600 calories per day, but is what I would need to sustain my weight - and if you get exercise regularly, that would change the number of course.

If you would like to determine how many calories you are burning, follow this link and you can learn the numbers. You can figure this into your scheme. For example, you could eat 500 calories less per day and work off 500 calories per day (this is the recommended way).
Go to this link:
http://primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/jumpsite/calculat.htm

Hope this helps!

Food Pyramid

To find out what you should be eating each day, go to www.mypyramid.gov
You type in your age, sex and activity level and will get a personalized food pyramid - this is a great tool.

Don't forget your serving sizes. Here are some tips:

Grains:
a serving of bread should be the size of cassette tape (that's an audio tape, not a video tape!)
a serving of pasta, rice, or potato is the size of 1/2 a baseball - if you've eaten a wide-open handful size of pasta, then that is 2 portions
a serving of corn flakes is the size of your fist

Dairy and Cheese:
a serving of cheese is 1 1/2 ounces or 4 dice stacked on top of each other -- hah!
a serving of ice cream is 1/2 a baseball
a serving of fat is 1 tsp or = to 1 dice

Veggies and Fruit:
1 cup of lettuce = a serving, again this is the size of a baseball
1 baked potato should be the size of your fist
1 fruit the size of a baseball
a portion of dried fruit is 1/4 cup of the size of a large egg

Meat and Alternatives:
3 ounces of meat, fish or poultry is a serving, this should be equal to the size of a deck of cards
Peanut Butter; you get 2 Tbsp for a serving and that is the size of a ping pong ball

Junk:
a serving of butter, magarine or other spreads is the size of a dice!
a serving of oil or mayo is the size of a ping pong ball
Nuts; what fits inside your hand when it is slightly rounded. Take caution though, my friend who is a dietician told me that they use nuts for patients with anorexia or other conditions where they are under weight. She says nuts will put the weight on them faster than anything else and you don't even have to eat very many.

Fiber and Cancer/Disease

Dietary fiber (also know as "roughage" or "bulk") is the part of the food that is indigestible. Found only in plant foods, it moves unaltered through the stomach and small intestine and into the colon. There are two types of dietary fiber: insoluble and soluble. Insoluble fiber doesn't dissolve in water and travels through the small intestines quickly. Wheat bran, whole grain breads and cereals, as well as the skins of many fruits and vegetables, are considered insoluble. Soluble fiber breaks down as it passes through the digestive tract, forming a gel that traps some substances that are beneficial in lowering cholesterol, stabilizing blood sugar and affecting nutrient absorption. Examples of soluble fibers are oats, beans, barley, and many fruits and vegetables.

Fiber has two well-known benefits:
Prevents and relieves constipation by stimulating movement of your intestinal muscles, increasing stool bulk and making your stools softer and easier to pass.

Controls weight by creating a feeling of fullness without adding too many calories to the diet.

Dietary fiber also can reduce the risk of many other health conditions including the conditions listed below" Gastrointestinal disorders. Avoiding constipation reduces the risk of developing hemorrhoids (swollen anal tissues), diverticulosis (pouches that protrude through weak spots in the colon) and irritable bowel syndrome (muscle spasms in the stomach walls). Elevated cholesterol. Soluble fiber binds with certain digestive acids made from cholesterol in the liver, and then takes the acids away in the stool. In response, your liver draws cholesterol from your blood to make more acids, thus lowering your blood cholesterol. Diabetes. Soluble fiber slows absorption of blood sugar from the small intestine, making sugar levels easier to control. Heart Disease. Soluble fiber lowers levels of cholesterol, which plays a role in heart disease. Colon Cancer. Insoluble fiber minimizes exposure to carcinogens that may be in the stool by diluting them and speeding their transit through the bowel. Additionally, the insoluble fiber reduces bile acids and certain bacterial enzymes that may promote the growth of precancerous polyps (tissue growths that protrude from a membrane such as the intestinal lining) and colon cancer.

Breast Cancer.
Prolonged exposure to increased estrogen and progesterone in the body increases cancer risk. Fiber helps speed cancerous substances, that have reached the intestines, out of the body before they can cause serious damage. Women who eat extra fiber rid themselves of their excess estrogen in bowel movements rather than in urine. This is important because estrogen in the urine can be reabsorbed into the blood stream and eventually reach the breasts and other organs vulnerable to hormone-related cancer. Dietary fiber "binds up" estrogen as it enters the small intestine, and may do the same with other cancer-causing agents, preventing them from being absorbed. Overall, studies have clearly strengthened the belief that fiber not only fights relatively minor intestinal disorders, such as diverticulosis and constipation, but may also help prevent coronary disease and cancer. However, the strongest evidence of a major reduction in risk comes from studies of diets that are rich in high-fiber foods, not just in fiber alone. Such foods, which are low in fat and rich in nutrients, have many health benefits beyond those provided by the fiber itself.

Recommended Daily Allowance Of Fiber
The Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommends eating foods that have adequate amounts of fiber. The National Cancer Institute and The American Heart Association (AHA) both recommend consuming 20 to 35 grams of fiber per day. Americans typically consume 10 to 15 grams of fiber per day.
Consuming the following recommended servings of a variety of fruits, vegetables, and grains throughout the day should bring the intake within the range recommended by the National Cancer Institute, AHA, and U.S. Department of agriculture.

Food

Fruits (2 to 4 servings per day)
Examples of Serving Size Apple -- 1 medium Banana -- 1 medium Orange -- 1 medium

Vegetables (3 to 5 servings per day) ½ cup cooked or 1 cup rawPeas Potatoes (with skin) Corn Green beans Broccoli Carrots

Grains (6 to 11 servings) Legumes-1/2 cup cookedOatmeal (cooked) -- 1/2 cup Brown rice -- 1/3 cup Whole Wheat bread -- 1 slice 100% Bran -- 1/2 cup

Note: fiber needs fluid to be effective so it's important to drink about 64 ounces of water daily.

Side Effects of Fiber
It's important to adjust fiber intake gradually over a period of one to two weeks. This will give the stomach and intestines time to adjust to the dietary change. It will also minimize problems such as diarrhea, bloating or gas that can result when too much fiber is consumed. Moderation is particularly important for older people because their bowel function may be sluggish. It has been feared that very high-fiber diets could, because of fiber's binding abilities, lead to deficiencies of calcium, zinc and other minerals. However, current evidence suggests that moderate fiber intake will not cause nutrient deficiencies. Fiber supplements (such as Citrucel, FiberCon, GenFiber, Hydrocil and Metamucil) should be used only with a physician's recommendations. Taken properly, these supplements may help with constipation, cholesterol levels or intolerance to high-fiber foods, but their anti-cancer benefit is questionable. Relying solely on fiber supplements is unwise because they don't contain the many essential nutrients found in high-fiber foods.

Holly - the weekend

Well, I didn't journal because I was gone over Sat and then it was Fast Sunday, so I'm just catching up today.
Saturday:
B: Musli w/ Rice Milk
Lunch: I was so proud of myself. Usually when we make a base run, the big deal is to eat tons of junk food when we get there. I brought a salad for myself and ate that while everyone else indulged.
I brought apples, carrots and cucumbers to snack on in the car and was quite satisfied.

Sunday:
Well, we fasted, but broke our fast around 6pm. Usually, this is quite a challenge for me too, because breaking our fast is usually a huge pigout for our family, but I had:
Salad, Rice, and a soy patty.
Later in the evening Robert was eating cereal, and then some ice cream. I finally broke down and ate two squares of dark chocolate - but still, for me, that wasn't too bad.
I am going to weigh myself tomorrow. Wish me luck!

Friday, April 07, 2006

Journaling

Why did I start this thing? Well, I read that those who journal what they eat, lose 65% more weight than those who don't. That is a powerful incentive! In addition to journalling, it is handy to note how you were feeling at the time you ate. If you periodically review your journal entries this should help you to learn more about yourself and your eating habits.

It is also good to journal excercise and water intake, for the same reasons as above. You may find that when you have your period you never drink enough water or when it is too cold etc, you can then compensate for it, maybe by drinking hot lemon water or something like that -- just having the knowledge gives you the power to make changes.

Here is a link to a quiz you can take to find out what kind of a behavior problem you have. I took it and found it to be quite interesting. You answer about 50 questions on line and then they have overweight people broken down into catagories like:
Foodaholic (Alexander)
Repeat Offender (that's me)
and about 4 other things I can't remember - I found the description to be pretty right on and think it is interesting.
Here is the link if you'd like to try it - Just click on the "Free Quiz" button:
https://www.smarttechnique.com/home.aspx?sid=b5683fbec97044dcbf0622f5fb414482

Holly - wed and thursday

Well, I wasn't all that great the last two days, but I didn't do bad either...

Wednesday:
B: Musli w/ rice milk (I tried to cut the portion today but then the kids had a bunch of oatmeal left over and I ate while I was cleaning up - isn't that disgusting?)

L: slimfast bar (220 calories)
snack: oops, I made some whole wheat bread and it smelled so good - I had two smallish pieces, actually, maybe it was 3. sigh.
D: brown rice, salad, tofu patty

Thursday
B: musli, rice milk (smaller portion but still not small enough)
L: skipped lunch and then ate several handfulls of trail mix. I made it myself so I know it wasn't sweetened or anything, but I did put choc. chips in it which were probably less calories than all the nuts and dried fruit.
D: slimfast bar and a big salad (apples, cilantro, feta cheese, roasted sesame seeds and a little olive oil - yum! It was so good)

I'm not where I want to be as far as eating goes, but I'm getting there and feel like I'm taking baby steps each day. An important aspect is that I am excercising at least 11/2 to 2 hrs per day. It is mostly walking but I do work up quite a sweat doing it.

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Welcome Home Donna!

I am so glad you are home Donna! I was sympathy eating with you while you were gone so I'm glad we got that out of the way and can get down to business!

You are always a great motivator for us so we look forward to your inspiration!

Scripture Study is at my house this Thursday at 1:30. Stephanie and I (and children) are going to do The Walk after scripture study. Anyone who wants to come (with or without children) is invited to join us. My boys will probably take their bikes...

Hope to see you all.

Holly, Tuesday April 4th

I managed to set aside my depression and stick to my diet yesterday. I really prayed many times throughout the day for strength and help -- I needed it and I got it!

Breakfast: Musli w/ Rice Milk
Lunch: Carrots and a Slim Fast meal bar (220 calories)
Snack: A pear
Dinner: Veggie Soup, a little rice, salad and a soy patty.

I walked with Ronde', then walked with the boys and dogs in the afternoon. I also did a small excercize workout. By the time the boys went to bed, all I could think about was getting a little snack from the kitchen. Just as Alexander went upstairs the phone rang and it was my friend from the States. She yacked until 10:30 pm and then it was too late for me to eat! (Actually, I could have still eaten but would have been too embarrased in front of Robert). So, that was the answer to my prayers.

Also, I'm realizing that I am consuming far too many calories for breakfast. I haven't figured it out yet because I make the musli myself, but I'm pretty sure my portion is way, way to big - in fact, I know it. But, it also keeps me satisfied till lunchtime. I really need to cut back though and that is going to be my next task. boo hoo, I really love my musli!

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Holly April 4th

For Monday:
I was pretty good yesterday.
Breakfast: Musli with Rice Milk
Lunch: Green salad
Snack: Pear
Dinner: Vegetable soup with rice
FHE treat: I had a slimfast snack bar (120 calories)

I woke up this morning feeling good about myself. I finally got up the nerve to weigh myself only to discover that I am even fatter than I thought. I am trying not to get depressed about it. I just can't believe how quick it comes on. I now weigh the same as I did when I was pregnant with Alexander and believe me - I was huge -- and-- I had another human being inside my body!

Well, I'm going to go forward from today, be good and weigh myself in a few more days.

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Hello Sisters, Family and Friends

This is our new blog. The idea is that we can use this to support each other in our quest to get fit or fitter than we are now.

Even though we may be spread out around the world we can still offer counsel and a listening ear to each other through the miracles of modern technology.

My idea is that those who wish to participate log onto this blog each evening or morning and journal what you have eaten for that day or for the previous day. Try to make a note of the portions you ate and how you were feeling when you ate and/or right before/after you ate.

This is also a site where you can add interesting facts you find that can help us in our quest.

We can do this and it will be easier together. I've been thin a good portion of my life so I know I can do it and I know you can too. We just need to push each other over the hump (or lump as the case may be!). I am so tired of feeling bad about myself and I want to feel good, have energy, and enjoy other people without always thinking about myself and if my blouse is pooching, if my stomach is covered or if I can bend over without popping my buttons! Yikes.

So, I hope you will join me! I love you all. Holly